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While am doing my morning blog walking, there’s a blog that caught my attention which says “How to dump your Friend”. From the title itself it sounded intriguing to me. How could you dump a friend and why would you dump her/him? Who would have the courage to dump a friend?

Oh I just remember, there is one friend of mine I just dumped her. I dumped her for a lot of reasons. She ruined my relationship to my boyfriend, and she also ruined my life. She even distracts my morale, self-esteem, and my self-confidence; I even lost my work because of what she has done into my life. What a nerve, she got on her body? I just don’t know. Oh by the way, I just didn’t dump her I also considered her as my greatest enemy and I hate her for the rest of my life.

If your friend is giving you head ache and causing you a lot of troubles. I guess it would be time to dump her/him, right? However, this blog that I’ve bump into, the reasons are so one-dimensional. He just find the girl sweet and almost perfect. He gets irritated every time the girl talks about the goodness she has done in their school or in their community. He is annoyed if the girl is around and discussing about religious stuff. That is why he dumped her and ignore her in his friends list. My eyebrows rose up and asked so what???

The way I see it, I guess this guy has a bad reputation and he maybe a pest in their society that is why he is irritated and annoyed with good things. Maybe he just don’t want to be surrounded with good people. I don’t know him that much but if you are going to read his blogs it talks about evilness and bad things. This is no longer my concern. Since we are all entitled to our own opinions and views then he still have the right to do that. However, I don’t think so he has the right to dump person as his friends, if that person didn’t do anything to harm him.

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22 comments:

Acting Balanced Mom said...

I'd say she's better off without him.. you're right, he's a nasty blogger... I've been dumped by people for not sharing their views - which I guess is ok, but I figure that tolerance is an important virtue as long as - as you say - the friendship isn't causing you distress or grief... You have to be a friend to keep a friend in my opinion :)

Mom et al said...

Hi, I'm your newest Friday follower!

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Author said...

Yes...we should always dump a freind when you feel so....but if u want to take revenge then stay his friend-louis

ladyguinevere28 said...

Acting Mom.. yes i am following you as well.. Keep it up...Lets always connect each other

ladyguinevere28 said...

Mom Et al.. yes i am following you.. nice blogs.. I keep following you from FF..

ladyguinevere28 said...

author.. you can dump a friend when you feel so. Even if he/she is not doing anything?

I am Harriet said...

It's been a while since I've dumped a friend but, there are a few I wish my daughter would dump :)

I'm stopping by to thank you for taking on the Comment Challenge.
Good luck and thanks!
Harriet

anne said...

Hi girl, hehehe first time to comment here, but anyway yeah if that friend is not doing you any good better be off the friendship, anyway its their lost not yours, right. Real friends doesn't take advantage of you nor grabbing the happiness that you had kasi true friends would be happy when you are happy. add ko na ang blog na ito doon sa mga blog ko hehehe oi add mo rin ako ha?

Debbie said...

I agree. No reason to dump her. But, he sounds horrible and I can't help but think she doesn't need him!

Mayra, mommy to Pooh Bear said...

I hope he gets dumped by a friend...hmm.. that sound mean, but she doesn't deserve it. What a nasty blogger.

Freely Living Life said...

Hi there!

I found you through "Friday Follow" and am now following your blog through Google Friend Connect. I look forward to reading more of your posts! Come on over and visit us when you have a free moment. <3

Mayra, mommy to Pooh Bear said...

left info on friday follow in your comment box. =D >>>>>>>>>>

dustinnikki said...

Happy Follow Friday! I'm your newest follower!

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Nicole

tessica said...

Here from Friday Follow

I just very passively dropped a friend who started a fling with my husband a week after he told me he was leaving me...
Reading this makes me want to not so passively dump her!
and he was a nasty blogger
and a shallow blogger

Debbie said...

Happy Friday Follow...newest follower. Thanks for stopping by my blog. My McLinky is now working...sorry about that.

www.lifeofamodernmom.com

Jerri said...

Following you back from Friday Follow. Thanks for stopping by Simply Sweet Home!

Darcy said...

Stopped back by from Friday Follow. Have a great weekend.

3 Cuzins @ Cuzinlogic said...

Stopping by from Friday Follow, Have a Great Weekend! BTW, I'm now following you via google reader.

Freely Living Life said...

Good evening! :)

We're stopping by from the FF to say hello and wish you a beautiful and relaxing weekend! Come on over and visit the Freely Living Life Family when you have some down time. We already are followers of your blog and look forward to coming by to see you again soon! <3 ((hugs))

anne said...

oist busy ka siguro ano? kaya nd mo na update ito, btw I have a tag for you just read the rule in my blog heres the link thanks http://annebianca.com/2010/03/hersheys-easter-basket-blog-hop.html

~ Yolie ~ said...

Oh, life's drama. I'm much better at reading it than I am at living it. I'm now your newest follower

Mariz said...

OMG. we almost had the same experience with a friend that I had a falling out, two people btw, and yes I am glad that I'm not with them anymore. I met new friends who are more understanding and more accepting of my flaws as a human being.

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